I do like my first name because of the
reason my parents gave it to me—so I could be an individual. They wanted me to
be special and not referred to as a Jr. or a III. It gives me my individualism
in the family. My father is the one who chose my name and wanted to spell it in
the French way he said “Geoffrey”. My parents discussed it and decided to spell
it the English way because they did not want the kids in school to make fun of
my name because of the unusual spelling.
My father, being a spiritual man, chose this name because it meant “peace”
and there is another spiritual reason which only he knows because he passed
away in 2010 before I could ask the question.
According to the website behindthename.com, Jeffrey is
derived from the ancient Germanic “GAUFRID” which its first element means
“territory” and second element means ”peace”.
The only nick name that I carry now is
due to the fact that I have to use crutches and have been on them for some
time. I have been called “Crip”, “Capt. Crutch”, “Hop-A-Long”, and a new one
just picked up in 082 Math which is “Hobbles”. Yes I have a sense of humor
because face it, it’s depressing enough being on them for eight years, so I
embraced it and now have fun with the names.
Now my last name is where all the
excitement is if you can ever have excitement discussing names. Clark is my
name now but was not always my family surname. Our family surname originally is
“Czyzewski” as you can tell ends in the suffix "ski" which means eastern European
i.e. Polish. Yes I know just about every Pollock joke out, again that pesky
sense of humor of mine. Czyzewski translates to "Kinights of Czyzewo", whch is a small town in Poland. My grandfather immigrated to the US when he was a
little boy from Gdansk, Poland carrying the typical sounding Polish last name.
towards the end of World War II, when many Europeans were fleeing war ravaged
Europe to get a fresh start in the US but they were met with lots of
discrimination because of the job situation. My grandfather did not want to be
looked upon as another foreigner one his job applications so he wanted a more
English/American sounding name. He thought of several as he munched away on his
favorite candy bar. Hmmm what you may ask what that so good tasting candy might
be? Look at my name. Why it was the “Clark” Bar naturally. It was American enough;
it sure beat the spelling of the Polish name which everyone butchers trying to
pronounce it if not told the proper pronunciation.
Very insightful. You must also have a meaning for "Forest Wolf." How did you get this name?
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